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Resolve Relationship Issues
and Enrich and Cultivate All of Your Relationships

Join the many who have turned to Neuro Linguistic Coaching® to successfully enhance, enrich, and cultivate their relationships, both romantic and familial. The foundations for a great relationship are communication and caring. Learning Neuro Linguistic Coaching® can help you improve your communication skills so you can better communicate with the people you love with renewed feelings of love and caring. With your knowledge of Neuro Linguistic Coaching®, you can also heal other issues that affect your relationships, including abuse and disagreement.

Bennett | Stellar University graduates are well-versed in how to work with individuals to create well-formed and achievable goals. One of the biggest problems in any relationship is the miscommunication, or misalignment, of how to have goals that move and grow together. Bennett | Stellar University’s Life Transformation Coaches guide clients through the artful and careful development of deeper levels of communication. These communication skills make relationships at work more productive, relationships with spouses or loved ones more intimate, and relationships with friends more connected and easy.

Bennett | Stellar Seminars or Its Graduates Can Help You. . .

Recapture Your Love

Deal With Breakups

Anger Management

Overcome Jealousy

Build Your Confidence

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Sandra Vesterstein
Master Life Coach & Hypnotherapist

Invest a few minutes to chat with me. I have over 15 years of experience in this field. I can help you truly understand the field and what to expect.

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As a Neuro-Linguistic Hypnotherapy coach trainer for Bennett|Stellar University, and the founder of Women-N-Spirit, I’ve leveraged the gifts of several effective coaching and therapeutic methods for you. In our session(s) you will overcome limiting beliefs and behaviors that have kept you from stepping into the best version of yourself.

I’ve always had an interest in helping women by tapping into the mind-body-spirit connection. In doing so, we can stop ourselves from being treated as “less than.” We can move away from the jealousy, abuse and victim mindset that keeps us from being our best, divine selves.

My intuition and unique suite of holistic methods accelerates personal and professional growth more rapidly than traditional coaching. Together, we can remap your mind for success so you can lead a fuller, more satisfying life!

“Sandra, I don’t know if you remember me. I brought my daughter to you a couple of years ago. She was suffering from PTSD and depression and had been for several years. She had witnessed a terrible accident if front of the house.

She saw you for 3 or 4 visits and was an entirely new person! What you did for her saved her life! She is like the young girl I remember her to be before that terrible day! I never managed to take the time to thank you for that and I should have. Thank you!” –S.C. Vermont 2011

What To Do After A Breakup / Divorce

what to do after a break up - self help - self development - Relationship issues - Divorce / BreakupsDivorces and relationship breakups can be heart-breaking and tragic. Just remember the most important thing during and after a break – you.

Is This Happening To You?

How are you coping? Do you feel like you’re drowning in your own sorrow and despair? Are you finding it difficult to pick up the pieces to start re-building your life? Has your breakup taken its toll on your self-esteem and sense of self-worth?

What To Do

Through Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching® and DreamSculpting®, we can help individuals recover from a difficult divorce or relationship breakup while boosting confidence, achieving peace of mind, and helping them focus on a more compelling and exciting future.

Bennett | Stellar University graduates and retreat programs will help you overcome your negative emotions without letting them take you over. Through Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching®, you can create a more positive, more optimistic, and more confident you. Ultimately, we’ll help you pick up your life after divorce, and move on wiser, stronger, more confident, and more motivated than ever before.

Through the use of our three highly effective types of therapy, we’ll help you to consciously think about your divorce or relationship break-up in a much more rational and self-promoting way. At the same time, we’ll recondition your unconscious mind to help you feel more relaxed and much more confident about yourself, your life, and your future. We’ll also help you to cultivate an exciting and compelling vision, so you, too, can live the life you desire and deserve.

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Anger Management

anger management couple - self help - self development - Relationship issues - Divorce / BreakupsWe usually feel anger when we are being hurt, our boundaries are being violated, our needs are being ignored, or during numerable other scenarios where our expectations are not being met. In these situations, we express anger as a means of regaining control, and in that regard, it is a perfectly natural state. However, anger can become a real problem when it’s experienced too frequently, too intensely – or for an extended period of time.

Most people respond to difficult situations by experiencing relatively healthy emotions, including stress, frustration, hurt, or fear; they reserve anger for the really serious situations in life. However, for some of us, we react to everyday situations by getting angry, and it becomes an all too frequent response. When most people get angry, the level of anger is typically restricted to raising the voice and expressing a few choice words. Some, however, find their anger to be much more intense. Even when ordinary people get angry at a more intense level, as a result of venting the anger, they usually find it subsides within a short space of time. For some, once they’re in this cycle, it’s difficult to get out of it, leaving them with a lingering sense of anger that permeates those around them for hours, possibly days.

At Bennett | Stellar University, we specialize in helping clients overcome anger management issues through the use of Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching®. Our success is in our ability to harness the extreme power of the unconscious mind to reprogram habitual patterns of behavior, such as responding with anger to everyday situations.

The reason Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching® are so effective with anger management is because the primary source of anger is the unconscious mind. Anger is not a conscious response. If you could consciously decide to stop getting angry, wouldn’t you simply decide to do so? The reality is that this would be a little like asking your conscious mind to forget how to ride a bike.

Through Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching®, we can access the unconscious mind and harness its extreme power to reprogram habitual patterns of behavior, such as responding with anger to everyday situations.

Like daydreaming, hypnosis is focused toward particular images, thoughts, perceptions, feelings, motivations, and behaviors which help change our habitual responses and learned behaviors.

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Life Transformation Coaches are well-versed in how to work with individuals to create well-formed and achievable goals. One of the biggest problems in any relationship is the miscommunication, or misalignment, of how to have goals that move and grow together.

Bennett | Stellar University’s Life Transformation Coaches guide clients through the artful and careful development of deeper levels of communication. This level of communication can help relationships at work become more productive, relationships with spouses or loved ones become more intimate, and relationships with friends become more connected and easy.

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What To Do About Jealousy

what to do about jealousy - self help - self development - Relationship issues - Divorce / BreakupsJealousy has been around since the beginning of time, and if we are honest, we’ve all experienced it. Indeed, like most other states, jealousy can be quite useful. In a healthy relationship, for example, it can heighten emotions, making love feel stronger.

However, when it’s intense or irrational, the story is very different. Jealousy can put a huge strain on a relationship, leaving one partner feeling as though they’re constantly walking on eggshells to avoid a jealous reaction. The jealous partner, often aware of their problem, swings between anger, self-blame, insecurity, and absolute justification. And if left that way, what otherwise could have been a long and happy relationship is destined to failure.

However, when it’s intense or irrational, the story is very different. Jealousy can put a huge strain on a relationship, leaving one partner feeling as though they’re constantly walking on eggshells to avoid a jealous reaction. The jealous partner, often aware of their problem, swings between anger, self-blame, insecurity, and absolute justification. And if left that way, what otherwise could have been a long and happy relationship is destined to failure.

Jealousy is actually quite complex, involving a myriad of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Thoughts range from blame to comparison to self-pity. Emotions range from pain, anger, and rage, to sadness and humiliation. This often leads to aggressive, and possibly even violent, behavior.
Deal With Jealousy

For people plagued by triggers that make them feel insecure, angry, and fearful, these feelings can be a thing of the past. With the use of Neuro Linguistic Hypnotherapy®, you can leave behind those old triggers, reprogram habitual patterns of behavior – such as responding angrily to everyday situations – to allow you to be more confident, more relaxed, and better able to enjoy your relationships.

The reason why Neuro Linguistic Hypnotherapy® is such a valuable tool to help overcome jealousy lies in the fact that jealousy is basically a habit – a habit of negative thinking and unconscious associations. This is why some people find it so difficult to consciously prevent those activating thoughts or feelings that drive the irrational and all too often self-destructive behavior. If you could consciously prevent them, you would, right?

Bennett | Stellar University trained Life Transformation Coaches use Neuro Linguistic Hypnotherapy®, and Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching® to help you conquer your jealousy once and for all. As a result, all those old triggers that used to make you feel insecure, angry, and fearful will become a thing of the past, leaving you more confident, more relaxed, and better able to enjoy your relationship.

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Build Confidence And Secure Your Future

Build Confidence - self help - self development - Relationship issues - Divorce / BreakupsAlmost everyone has had that experience of enjoying the benefits of high self-esteem and confidence.

For some people, this is the norm for their everyday lives. For others, it may be a short-term feeling created out of achieving a specific goal, like getting promoted or starting a new relationship.

For some of us, however, having high self-esteem is something that seems to be just outside of our reach, and as a result, we can feel helpless, powerless, and even depressed. Having low self-esteem invariably means a life of continually comparing ourselves unfavorably with others, and allowing life’s little knocks to have dramatic impact on how we think, feel, and behave.

Self-esteem affects the set of judgments we make about ourselves, our value, our worthiness, and our competence in various domains within our life. Having low self-esteem can have huge implications for our ability to feel confident, content, assertive, and happy.

Through DreamSculpting® and Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching®, you’ll immediately benefit from a boost to your self-esteem, allowing you to cultivate and maintain a more positive and optimistic attitude toward life, and a greater sense of confidence in your ability to start living the life you desire. Ultimately, through improving your self-esteem, you can ready yourself to take on the world!

The reason why DreamSculpting® and Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching® are such effective tools is because self-esteem is something that’s regulated by the unconscious part of our mind (i.e., that part of us that manages our memories, beliefs, and learned behaviors). And because DreamSculpting® and Neuro Linguistic Life Coaching® bypass our conscious mind and focus on retraining our unconscious, our clients experience very real, significant, and long-lasting change extremely quickly.

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